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Friday, September 28, 2007


I don't know why i'm blogging so much.
but i was just thinking.. (ok, so i wasn't really concentrating on the essays on my table) that i'm quite a horrible comfort-er, comfort provider, SYMPATHISER. hahahahaha..
yes, ok seriously, until now one thing that i have completely no idea how to go about doing is to make people feel better.. like really feel better.
how to make someone really forget her troubles and not just give a watery 'i''ll be fine' smile that just seeks to reassure me??

is there a 101 for that, cause i'll need it i think.
because i don't feel good when people tell me that they're sad, that they need support and know that i won't be able to provide that for them.
maybe because to me, when im really feeling down, nothing anyone can say can cheer me up one leh. haha.. i just have to wallow in it for awhile and then get on with life.
just sitting quietly with someone whom i know understands just really helps.
hugs and kisses(figuratively) just don't apply at that moment, you know.
nice words, encouraging words won't apply either.
so what to do to make people feel better?????
I don't know.

HAII life and its many puzzles.
when we will ever get to know any better?



11:40 PM

KANJANI!

liting!

If you can't get rid of the skeleton in your closet, you'd best teach it to dance.

EITO!


PAAAAAN!


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